Monday, December 30, 2013

It's the time to change

Monday, 30 December 2013

Omo, I've been abandon my blog for triple month...kekeke irresponsible me #facepalm.

But never mind as long as I've been take care it back today.

Hi fellow guys hi my friends, today I want to share something I think that's great to read.
Actually this article is written by the famous make up teacher on Youtube call Michelle Pan.

This article before was shared by one of my friend, she is very love Michelle Pan. 
So when I open this article, it's really inspired me too.
Here I copy the article, so all of you can read it and hope it'll also can inspire all of you like I do.

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1.) The importance of rest: I firmly believe in all of my subbies’ abilities to achieve their wildest dreams – but it’s important that you are leaving enough time in the day to give your body (and brain) some rest.  We should all channel our inner Superwoman when it comes to pursuing our passions, but if you’re always doing a million things a day – even if they’re all enjoyable – eventually, you will burn out.  A lot of people learn this the hard way, so take my advice now and give your body the break it deserves.  Whether it’s a pampering day at the spa, a night in with the girlfriends or just an effort to actually get 8 hours of sleep (it’s harder than it sounds!), giving your body time to rest and recharge is what will help you keep doing what you love in the long run.

2.) Credit card checklist: A lot of people attribute post-college life with financial freedom.  And with that financial freedom comes one very appealing perk: credit cards.  But before you go dashing off to the nearest bank, make sure to ask yourself three questions (I call it the “credit card checklist”): 1.) Do I have a steady source of income? 2.) Have I been responsible with my money in the past? 3.) Will I be able to stay under the monthly credit limit? If you answered yes to all three of these questions, then you are set to apply for a credit card.  A lot of banks will target new graduates, so make sure you are really ready for the responsibility!

3.) Know your needs: Know what makes you happy – then don’t be afraid to ask for it.  Whether it’s in the workplace, in your relationships, or any other part of your life, standing up for yourself is something you should never be afraid to do.  A lot of people may avoid it because they are afraid it will make them appear selfish or demanding, but in the end, you are in charge of your own happiness.  Don’t be afraid to ask for what you deserve!    

4.) Friendships take effort: Friendships can feel so easy in school; after all, you see each other in class everyday.  Unfortunately, that isn’t the way it always is.  As we grow up, our lives get filled with new things – and sometimes before we know it, those effortless friendships have faded into the background in the blink of an eye.  If I’ve learned anything, it’s that even the best friendships require effort to keep the bond strong.  And just because they take some work doesn’t mean they’re not worth holding onto! So don’t forget to call up your friends on the weekends or set up a weekly dinner date.

5.) Focus inwards, not outwards: One of the biggest pitfalls you can encounter in life is to constantly compare yourself to those around you.  It’s okay – we all fall into that trap every once and awhile. The thing is, comparing yourself will never make you happy – and that’s a life lesson that it takes some people years to learn!  Instead of focusing on those around you, turn the focus inwards.  Find out what makes you happy and focus on doing that.  Don’t be afraid to relish all of your own victories, from the big to the small.
  
6.) Take risks: Just because something scares you doesn’t mean it can’t be the best thing that’s ever happened to you.  Taking risks in your life can have huge pay-offs.  And even if they don’t always go the way you’d like, I’ve always believed that I would rather have experienced it than be left wondering “what if?”  The next time an opportunity comes knocking, take it – some of the best things in life only happen when you leave what’s comfortable and take a leap of faith.

7.) Travel: Nothing opens your eyes and refreshes your spirit as much as travel.  I don’t know if it’s the change of scenery or the ability to experience a different culture, but traveling always puts things in perspective.  It makes you realize that the world is so much bigger than just you! I’m not saying that everyone has to go on an expensive trip to another continent; in fact, simply going on a weekend road trip to a different city can be a breath of fresh air.  I highly recommend that everyone take at least one trip outside his or her city – it will forever change the way you view the world.

8.) Avoid gossip: Almost every girl has gossiped before – but that doesn’t mean it’s okay to keep doing it. Gossip may seem harmless and fun at first, but it can easily turn into an ugly tool that can hurt feelings, tear apart friends and ruin relationships.  Don’t underestimate the power of words.  Next time you feel the urge the gossip, picture how you would feel if you were the other person overhearing what you were about to say.  If you can’t say it in front of the person you are talking about, don’t say it at all!

9.) Appreciate the little things: Sometimes we get so caught up in the crazy whirlwind of life that we lose sight of what’s important.  I find that taking a step back and appreciating the little pleasures that often go unnoticed – from the smell of fresh coffee in the morning to the way the city glistens after a thunderstorm – always helps me refocus.  Think of the way little kids get so excited about the simplest things that we usually take for granted.  The world is a beautiful, exciting place – let’s spend more time focusing on that than worrying about things out of our control. 

10.) You are stronger than you know: No matter what life throws your way, no matter how many times your heart gets broken, no matter how many disappointments you experience, know this: you are stronger than you know. Time heals all wounds, and no matter how down you may feel, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. You will emerge from every low period in your life with a lesson learned and a better understanding of yourself.  So let yourself cry – but after awhile, let yourself heal.  You might be surprised at your own strength.

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From the 10 lesson above, the most inspiring lesson for me is the lesson 5 and lesson 9.
I think that's make me realize, realize that every small thing happen for a reason and take a time to re-think again. What's the most important in your life?
Appreciate every little things and be grateful, you will find the amazing grace from Above and you will feel the amazing happiness you haven't feel it before.

Today's  already 30 December 2013, 2 days to go is the beginning of the New year.
Do you guys already plan anything for your upcoming year?
Try, use this two days to make a note and make a list. What you want to do, when and how?
I'm sure all of you can do it well.
Goodluck everyone. 
Hope faith always walk with you.




End of year regards from me,

ZLFonk 


Monday, September 16, 2013

Neuro Linguistic Programming

Monday, 17 September 2013

Hi all..

Today here I want to sharing some trick I got during Seminar on 7-8 September 10 days ago.
Yesss..
I feel very happy can join this seminar..Actually at the first time I don't want to join because of the fee.The fee is 500.000 Rupiah..for me is quite a big deal because I can save it and also can buy a lot of things..
But because of my leader was insist asking me to join this Seminar so mm I decided to join..

Yess...And in this Seminar I get a lot of friend and feel a bit closer one another than before.
Just feel so happy and also my boyfriend join this Seminar and thinking that after that we can share together what we get from this Seminar.
The Seminar topic is Mind Programming or NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming)
Neuro is mean Mind
Okay guys.
The speaker is Basuki Harijadi (the national Speaker in Indonesia)
Yes he taught us and he let us know level of our mind, the process of what we're thinking about and how our brain work of it.
We have two level in our brain when we're doing anything include typing, walking, seeing, running and etc..conscious mind and subconscious mind and what we use when we're typing, walking, seeing and running?
Yes they're using conscious mind and it already become our habit in our life.

Then what's the role of subconscious mind?
You know what, yes subconscious mind have 70% more powerful than conscious mind..

So it's mean whatever we want, just focus and take it to subconscious mind.
But how to do?
How to practice it in our life?

Yes...Let me sharing at here as I get from this training..

Before we sleep, 30 minutes before, sit and focus and relax and think what you want you just take it as you're already have it and you're already achieve it.
Actually we have the music to let us feel relax because it will take our brain to ALPHA level means the very relax level..so our subconscious mind will open and absorb what we think and what we want.
So when you heard that music and program it on your mind, and I think will be success and will be real..
Yah I have no proof here, because myself haven't try it seriously..

But if you guys feel interesting, just try and the goods will come to you...
Aminnnn~

Nice day all ^^
Goodluck for me and for you all : )



Thursday, August 15, 2013

Everyday is different ^^

每一天都不同

最讨厌  要下不下的雨
zui tao yan yao xia bu xia de yu
可惜未来总是  扑朔迷离
ke xi wei lai zong shi pu shuo mi li
如果摔的越痛  才越会飞行
ru guo shuai de yue tong cai yue hui fei xing
快把我  丢向最高的天空里
kuai ba wo diu xiang zui gao de tian kong li



不喜欢  别人说我幸运
bu xi huan bie ren shuo wo xing yun
他们不懂 我有 多么努力
ta men bu dong wo you duo me nu li
虽然冲动永远  比坚持容易
sui ran chong dong yong yuan bi jian chi rong yi


宝贵的东西都需要很费心
bao gui de dong xi dou xu yao hen fei xin

碰到的事  每一天都不同
peng dao de shi mei yi tian dou bu tong
有的给我眼泪  有的给我笑容
you de gei wo yan lei you de gei wo xiao rong


终于会珍惜花开不怕花落
zhong yu hui zhen xi hua kai bu pa hua luo
走过的曲折 就全变成彩虹
zou guo de qu zhe jiu quan bian cheng cai hong

遇见的人  每一天都不同
yu jian de ren mei yi tian dou bu tong
偶尔失去什么  偶尔学到什么
ou er shi qu shen me ou er xue dao shen me
慢慢能翻越沙丘走出日落
man man neng fan yue sha qiu zou chu ri luo
每一天的我 要比昨天辽阔
mei yi tian de wo yao bi zuo tian liao kuo

连我都不相信自己的时候
lian wo dou bu xiang xin zi ji de shi hou
只有你一直相信我
zhi you ni yi zhi xiang xin wo
此刻我什么也不想说
ci ke wo shen me ye bu xiang shuo
因为拥抱能表达得更多
yin wei yong bao neng biao da de geng duo


Enjoy guys~

Life's Good

Thursday, 15 August 2013

LG = Life's Good reader... XD

Yeahhh..today I heard a good news from the one of my friend..Hehehehe
mm...that is ahhh one of my friend got propose by her boyfriend and Yessssss the answer.... So sweet...
Hope they can have a happiest and blissful life for the end of time.
Deepest wishes to both of you ^^

And today my Boyfriend is going to Jakarta for the monastery improvement..hehehe
Yesss he go with our friends for 3 days without switch on any phone..omo... can't contact him, but this is the rule..so have to obey..hehe.B-)

Because this, today I make Bento for him, he keep asking when I will make Bento for himm...wkwkw..
And today I wake up in the early morning on 5AM...and I fried, cook, cut and decorate the Bento with my fullest love till 6AM, kekekeke..Using one hour to make this..but I'm happy and feeling satisfied with the result..

You guys wanna see...Tadaaaaaaa!


I think it's not bad, but for next time I'll improve my skill..Hiakk hiakkk...

And I've realize that how hard the life is, if you can feel grateful and Life is Good.

Screw Up All..

Have a nice day ^^

Saturday, August 3, 2013

The risk

Saturday, 03 August 2013

When u have decided to take the risk, make sure you have to make it perfect!

Nice weekend all ^^

Friday, August 2, 2013

Simple

Friday, 02 August 2013


Just a simple kiss on the lips, and my heart begins to pound. Just a simple smile from you, and I know I'm spellbound - Nicole Kinder


TGIF ^^
Have a nice day all~

Friday, July 12, 2013

Law of Attraction

Friday, 12 July 2013

Hi friends, I'm here...
Here to update my blog.

Mmm...
Recently have many conversation with my friends, my family and my boyfriend about life.


Lot of conversations were happening and the point is how you live your life without stress and live to fullest.
Yahh..
about a week ago, my friend lend me a DVD, the title is The Secret.(thought some of you will know this book)
First time I thought that's the movie or what, because when I ask him, he didn't know how to explain it. He asked me to watch by myself.
So when I take home, I didn't watch it immediately..
But when my friend ask me, "tomorrow I'll take back the secret yahh"
I confused and reply back, " What what is it?"
BAHAHAHHA..
he said yeee,,,prove that you haven't watch it,,, then I remember it..Ohh yaaa..feel so Paise..wkwkwkwkkw

Mmm...then I immediately watch it after I finish watching the Taiwan Movie.

Yeppp,,first the background music is so scary..I feel a little scary of the music. but I think you aren't XD #I'm coward.


Okay then I just watch and see many person come out and telling about the truth of The Secret.
and sometimes will show some short movie clip.
And I know what they're telling about.
What they're telling to us is "Law of Attraction"
It's mean what you think will radiate out the frequency and the universe will reply back what you think.

#will get lil confuse in this.
Then they show some example like, they make the test to one Runner. They asked this runner to think that he is running so fast with full energy, and the frequency that radiate out is same with the reality when this runner really running so fast.
So it's mean, what you think is same with what you get in reality.

And for the other example:
One girl, she sentenced to suffer the cancer. She also have the scanning photo of the cancer.
And she decided to let it be and always think that she's already recover from this disease and no more cancer at her breast.
She pass her day with happily, with watching a lot of comedy movie. and You know what?
Yess,, miracle happened, her breast cancer disappear from her body. You even can see the Scanning photo between before and after.

Amazing right?

Yesss..that's how the life is so amazing too.

What you think will become what you get.
This is taught us to be positive thinker.
Don't think negative and you know all the bad things will come once to you.
It's real, when you think positively, the good things will happen on you.
Believe it..!
That's The Secret of every success people..!
They know it and they practice it to their life..


So hope all of my readers can be positive thinker although somehow it's really tough to do that.
Me too.. it's hard for me sometime but I try and now I practice slowly in my life.
I want to live my life fullest and happily with my family, friend and my love one.
Goodluck Everybody

^^

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

The Best Marriage Propose

Wednesday, 03 July 2013

Hello Everybody,

Here's a video - amazing marriage propose video.

Every single moment that boy create for his girlfriend.

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=1388214414728349 <--- This is the link..

After I watch this video, feel so bless and happy for them.

And the funny one is the comment of the one viewer..here's the screenshot of their comment..


WUAHAHAHAHA.. Don't give your girlfriend look this video guys!
They will request some of this...wkwkwkkwkwkwkw XD :p

Just Kidding ^^..Have a nice day all ~

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Teachings of Kwan Im Goddess

Teachings of every religion always teach us to be good and good.
This is how you live your life with these 20 teachings.
These are the most hardest things to do in life.
If you can do..Yeah...I can say: "You're very success to live your life."
Success isn't mean to be rich but success was mention a lot of things you can achieve whether material or non-material, all of them depend on your mindset.

Goodluck all ^^

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

What kind of life that we want?

Wednesday, 29 May 2013

Today's topic..What kind of life that we want? Why I mention this?
Because of lately I have my own job, the job with target the job with stress for me.

But some of the people because of this job, they become rich and they achieve what they want.
Maybe because of this, I have put my interest into it..But since I'm running it, sometimes I meet some problem, mental problem that it is hard for me to change my own character become different. 
I think It's not suitable for me.
So yesterday I did sharing with my boyfie and my friend.. I asked them What Kind Of Life that You Want?... Here is our conversation between me and my boyfie and me and my friend.

Me with Boyfie

Me: D, what kind of life that you want?
Him: I want a happy life.

Me: mmm...What kind of happy life?
Him: Have a stable work, Income can sufficient family, Spending life with the person I love most.

Me: yahhh...that's good, but sometimes I think that when I saw the rich people, they can buy what they want and can travel where they wanna go. It's good, isn't it?
Him: Yahhh...maybe every person will feel like this, because they never feel before how rich people spending their life, they also wanna have such of this kind of life. But I asked you... For you, if you wanna be rich..maybe your bank account got 100 million Rupiah..is it enough for you? No...You will want more and more.. so u will never be satisfied. 

Me: Yepp..that's right.. I think I know what you mean and I also know what I want now..hehehe..

Me with Friend

Me: S, what kind of life that you want?
S: Emm.. I want a simple life, a happy life.. Can stay together with my family even in joy or sorrow situation, can solve problem together. That's my dream.
 

Me: But S, I see the rich people is so good, they can buy what they want and can travel where they wanna go,, S: But the money can't stay forever. 
Me: It's right, sometimes when we wanna be rich, but we can't achieve it, it would be stress for us.  
S: Yah,, I want simple life that like can live at the village with a lot of green field and it's so warm. How lovely isn't it?
Me: Yahh..you're right,,that's really peaceful life and happy life I think.. *in my mind, I know what really life is..


From these two conversations.. I have some conclusion.. That What Kind of Life that I Really Want...
1. A happy life doesn't have to be rich.
2. If you live your life simply and feel thankful, you will feel your own happiness.
3. Live your life with grateful, don't envy what others have, because every people have their own life and own mind and own karma.
4. As long as we don't let down our own life, and we always work hard, life will never let you down..
5. That's life, accept it and enjoy it..




Warm wishes for all of you,

^^

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Dating with you~

Tuesday, 21 May 2013

The day we spent together on 19 May 2013.
Here's some pictures of us.
with you~
Hey you,, have a breakfast no narsis :p


Otw to Rainbow Cafe.. B-)

Our drinks :9

Chocolate Fountain..Yummy yummy

French Fries...Bashitaaaaaa~

The dress I try and it's very expensive >,<

xixixi, First time wearing like this.. B-)
Hhahahaa...
That day is very fun and happy..
Enjoy my time, my day with him...
Love you~


^^

Friday, April 19, 2013

Goodluck ^^

Friday, 19 April 2013

Hi bloggers...How are you?

Hope all of you are fine ;)
Me too..fine..After fight with my study assignment, test and the last final judgement..And I've already pass them all..


But now what should i do?
What should i concentrate on?
What is my goal?
I even don't know what should i do for the next, I just know that I have a dream to pursuit that is opening a restaurant or eating house..I like to cooking to satisfied people. If they eat and enjoy the food. I also feel so satisfied and very happy. That's my first one.


The second one is about the design, want to design something that people request and the result looks good and satisfying the others. Yah customer satisfied and me too..Double work and double happy! =p

And now I still working at my office as a Purchaser. My job is not bad but my salary mmm for me is still low and maybe for others also so low..but I don't want to complain..

If I complain too much and they also want too much.
But a few days ago I show my Manager my SKL (the letter prove that I've already got degree title)..Although I don't like to show but I've to show to higher my salary, because my workplace also see this stuff..so want or not still have to do..

Yah...maybe for temporary I'm still working at here and see the situation and condition..hehehe..
Goodluck for me and for ya all ^^

Monday, April 1, 2013

April Fools' Day 3-D

Monday, 01 April 2013

Hello hello hello friends,,,,everybody know what's the day of today? even a child an old guys or others will know..
Of course today is Monday.. Yah..actually what I want to mention is April Fools' Day... 

April Fools' Day is celebrated in many countries on April 1 every year. Sometimes referred to as All Fools' Day, April 1 is not a national holiday, but is widely recognized and celebrated as a day when people play practical jokes and hoaxes on each other.

Hahaha..Yah this April Fools' Day has spread all over the world or go international.
Many teenagers will make some prank to their friends and play a joke with them.
As a result, many of them have been kidding and will feel angry or some funny maybe.

But but I mention you, don't play this with very serious things and with serious people.
One you play, maybe will got the problem forever or lost ur friendship or maybe relationship.
I've ever heard from people that this April Fools' Day grab the life of one girl because of her boyfriend play a joke with her that want to break up with her. So she suicide at this day..mmm..just so so pity of this girl and I hope this thing won't happen to you..
So better don't play such of this kind of joke.

But yah if you wanna play, just play something like lying people that you've a special day or not so serious things..better think before play..XDXD..#just advice..

That's all about April Fools' Day..and today was already 01 April 2013..seems the times flying so fast.
2 days to go is a full month of us..hahaha..
Feel very happy in these days with you..

Hope our relationship will be long-everlasting till the end.
New month new hope new spirit and new inspiration to have..
Fighting for now and future..
Hope no matter what small or big prob appear in our life..It will be over and end with a happy result..^^
 


Love you Ouji~ 
Happy April Fools' Day All...


^^

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

You Are My Sunshine

Tuesday, 26 March 2013

Hahaha..do you know why i write a post today?
Yahh because he said that I rarely update my blog recently #hechecksmyblogeveryday XD.. because recently I'm very busy with my work. 

So have less time to update my blog.

But I want to grant his wish..
Even I don't know what I want to post..

I wanna give him one song a kid song..Hope he like it..

Dear~ Hope you like it =p



YOU ARE MY SUNSHINE

You Are My Sunshine
My only sunshine.
You make me happy
When skies are grey.
You'll never know, dear,
How much I love you.
Please don't take my sunshine away

The other night, dear,
As I lay sleeping
I dreamed I held you in my arms.
When I awoke, dear,
I was mistaken
And I hung my head and cried.

You are my sunshine,
My only sunshine.
You make me happy
When skies are grey.
You'll never know, dear,
How much I love you.
Please don't take my sunshine away.

I'll always love you
And make you happy
If you will only say the same
But if you leave me
To love another
You'll regret it all some day;

You are my sunshine,
My only sunshine.
You make me happy
When skies are grey.
You'll never know, dear,
How much I love you.
Please don't take my sunshine away.

You told me once, dear
You really loved me
And no one else could come between
But now you've left me
And love another
You have shattered all my dreams;

You are my sunshine,
My only sunshine.
You make me happy
When skies are grey.
You'll never know, dear,
How much I love you.
Please don't take my sunshine away.



Hahhaa..that's for today Dear <3

^^

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Almost Free

Wednesday, 06 March 2013

Hey Blogger, It's been a month I didn't make a post.
I'm so busy on my last project..They really drive me crazy..

But now I think I almost free,,,I've pass all judgement and now have to revise one of them..After that...I'm really free..Yahuiiiiii....
And wait for my convocation on November 2013 later...And I'll be Nani S.Si maybe...But It will not make me so happy..Just a appreciation through 3.5 years...Hahaha..

Thanks God for everything happened in my life, although sometimes will give me the challenge and from that I can learn how to be stronger..
And thanks for give you in my life...Love you Ouji~



Nice day all ^^

Thursday, January 24, 2013

为什么?

星期五, 25 January 2013

心就是那样难受。。
不知道该怎样,谁能来教教我。

不是我夸张,而就是这样的感受到。
相信每一个人都会有这样的感受吧。


怒 ~

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Lated New Year Post ^^

Monday, 21 January 2013

Hey..Happy Belated New Year everybody ^^
Wish u all of have an awesome year for this 2013.

2012 have been passed and it's like a food.
Got many taste = Sweet, sour, bitter and spicy..wkkwwkw..

Yehh I hope at this 2013 all of us can get more surprised in this life..
And get more experience and also knowledge...

I want to thanks to the God, Family, Friends and also all of the people around me that give me such a beautiful life and experience on it..

^^